Speed Fucking

“Fucking” = anything you and your partner(s) understand by that word — it can, but doesn’t have to be penetrative.

It could be sensual, energetic, porny, kinky, playful, cuddly, spiritual, simple, calm… It all depends on what you consensually want to create together. And yes, that includes doing nothing — together :)

“Speed” = like in speed dating. We rotate partners so that new pairings are constantly forming. Each duet has 10 minutes together. We skip the question “Is something going to happen between us?” and go straight to “What could happen between us?” We explore this in randomly assigned pairings — sometimes with people who match our preferences, and sometimes with those who totally don’t. The results can be surprising, often challenging our expectations and opening up space for rich discoveries and experiences.

In each pairing, communication takes top priority. Before any physical interaction, there is a mutual check-in: you share any emerging impulses around touch, and only with a clear and mutual “yes” does interaction begin. Everything is fully optional — each exchange can be paused, changed, or ended at any moment. What you do together is entirely up to you.

The workshop starts with warm-up exercises, including nervous system regulating tools like ERAP (Embodied Relational Awareness Practice), designed to help you connect safely with others while staying anchored in yourself. We’ll then explore non-physical exercises to ignite the imagination: what scenarios come to mind with this person? There will also be time to turn yourself on — through movement, touch, and fantasy.

All in all, we’ll go through 5–6 rounds. Afterwards, you’ll have time to check in with each partner again and share reflections about your experiences.